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I Faced Death Today

Today is my cat's last day. He has an incurable condition that will eventually lead him to suffocation or heart attack. We are removing the possibility of suffering by putting him down.



There isn't a more uncomfortable task we have in life than to face death. Especially when it is someone we love.

We don't like to think of our own death either. Most lack a living will, money to cover burial expenses. not to mention leaving a legacy or lasting value behind.

Avoiding death is the same thing as negligence. It's a failure to embrace the inevitable.


We are celebrating Toby's life today but that's not enough to ease our crying eyes and sobs. We need to consider our own passing. Now.

  • Have you planned your end?
  • Are you now prepared?
  • What is your legacy?




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